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10 Simple Ways to Improve Your Online Communication Skills

By Nate McCallister

Last Updated November 26, 2019


Your online communication skills are critical to success in the 21st century but they are particularly important if you run any kind of online business (like most of my readers do).

There are a number of subtle, yet critical differences between communicating online (with written words and images) than communicating with others face to face. Many people fail at properly communicating online and they can come off as disingenuousawkward or even rude

Poor online communication skills can also harm your overall productivity and effectiveness. You'll spend more time and effort clarifying things that weren't expressed properly the first time. 

Improve your online communication with these 10 easy to implement tips! 

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It doesn't matter who you are, you need to master the art of proper online communication and you should do it soon!

Here are some immediately implementable ways that you can improve your online communication skills.

#1 Take Time to Write a Proper Response

A big difference between online and in person communication is that we have time to draft better, more thought out responses.

This means you can say the right thing, avoid flippant replies, and get your point across more clearly.

If you're in a confrontational conversation, this extra time can be the difference between remedying a situation and escalating it to the next level. 

"Speak when you are angry -- and you'll make the best speech you'll ever regret." - Laurence Peters

No one expects instant replies online anymore. Take the extra time to write a good one.

#2 Stop Saying So Much, Start Listening (Reading) More

Epictetus wrote"We have two ears and one mouth so that we can listen twice as much as we speak."

Instead of immediately waxing on with a reply, consider getting more information and a better understanding of what the other person/people are saying.

Ask questions.

Remember, most people struggle to communicate clearly online, so help them out by seeking clarity whenever possible.


All caps = Yelling. 

Stop Using All Caps

Avoid using ALL CAPITAL LETTERS unless you really need to make a point!

When I get an email in all caps, I'm immediately turned off. 

You can use them to draw attention to something important, just be careful that it is obviously not trying to convey that you're angry or upset about something.

#4 Avoid Sarcasm 

Sarcasm doesn't translate well online. Unless you're very close with someone and they understand your sense of humor, most sarcasm will be missed.

It will be taken seriously and what was supposed to be a joke could cause serious problems.

I'm often sarcastic online but only to people or groups that expect that from me. 

Ask yourself, "will this person(s) get that this is an attempt at sarcasm?"

Remember, it is perception, that matters.

#5 Try and Match Replies in Length and Tone

If someone gives you praise and it's 6 sentences long, replying with a "thx," makes you look like a jerk.

Long question short answer

Instead, focus on adding some substance to your reply and actually show you care. Something like, "Thanks! That really means a lot to me to hear that."

Get into the habit of being mindful. It goes a long way.

#6 ...Don't Overuse the Ellipsis...

An ellipsis is the series of periods "..." at an end of a sentence.

These leave an unfinished tone to your writing and can seem condescending.


Adding "..." all over the place makes you seem sarcastic or condecending.

While they have their place in communicating online, overusing the ellipsis isn't a good idea.

Don't be that person...


#7 Use Videos and Images Frequently

Images and videos can greatly improve your online communication skills. 

Images may include things like:

  • GIFs
  • Emojis
  • Memes
  • Screenshots

It's 2019, it's perfectly normal to incorporate these things into your conversations.

Studies even show that they can actually help the person(s) you're talking with remember more of what you said.

When people hear information, they're likely to remember only 10% of that information three days later. However, if a relevant image is paired with that same information, people retained 65% of the information three days later. (Source)

So, do your readers a favor. Get their attention and teach them something that lasts!

I love GIFs and use them in a lot of private conversations. Aids in clarity. Oh, and they can be hilarious...

When necessary, video can be even better. I love the screen recording software Loom for this.

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Software like Loom ( makes it easy to share screen recording explainer videos.

Loom has been critical to my own customer support processes.

#8 Speak in the Voice of Your Audience and Keep it Simple

Clarity is king. If you can explain something complex in a simple and easy to understand way, you're doing it right.

So knock it off with the fancy lingo and word of the day injections.

No one has ever complained that a less complicated word was used in place of a less common one.

Use industry jargon as appropriate, but there is no point in distancing yourself from your audience by using complicated words if they aren't necessary.

#9 Sometimes Saying Nothing Is the Best

Be sure that you don't put on a show for thousands of people by arguing with someone excessively.

"Remember not only to say the right thing in the right place, but far more difficult still, to leave unsaid the wrong thing at the tempting moment."― Benjamin Franklin

If you really have something to be settled, take it to a private chat.

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I have always struggled with this, as I love the chance to partake in a war of words with someone I think is "trolling," but that rarely ends well.

#10 [On Social Media] Avoid Long Posts and Wordy Replies

"The most important things are the hardest to say, because words diminish them." - Stephen King

As in quality copywriting, you are best suited to break down long responses into multiple posts or comments. Valuable or not, writing a manifesto as a reply will typically be ignored.

Bonus: Just Be Nice!

We've all had emails or messages that we weren't psyched to reply to.

Questions that could have been answered with a simple Google search, negative feedback, refund requests etc.

It's tempting at times to be short or rude with these people, but why? 

In a two way conversation online, you have nothing to gain by making the other person feel bad.

There's no contest to win by telling them off but you can win their trust and respect by treating them kindly. 

Try to make the person on the other end feel like you care. 

Nate McCallister

Do you have any tips for communicating online? Communicate them to me in the comments!

About the author

Nate is the founder and main contributor of He is a lifestyle entrepreneur who spends his time building businesses and raising his four kids Sawyer, Brooks, Van and Lua with his beautiful wife Emily. His main interests include copywriting, economics and piano.

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